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Today I told a guy exactly how far he could fuck off, He said women should look and behave more appropriately, He said my opinion just showed I was one of those "angry women". He said my emotions made my point invalid, That you can't have a serious discussion once a woman gets emotional. He called me an angry woman like it was a bad thing, He thought this would insult and offend. Seriously  the dude has no idea, I pride myself on being that kind of angry. Although his knowledge is so lacking, He hasn't even noticed I'm not a women. He's talking but I don't think he has ever listened. If he paid attention he might notice that I am angry, Lots of people are angry, we are right to be pissed. If he paid attention he would notice my pride, That I know how to express those feelings, I know how to not be trodden on and silenced, By men who have never paid attention, Men who are shocked that they are being made to notice, My femme opinion. If h...

What's A Happening? Hi everyone it has been forever and life has been complicated but I have missed my little blog space so I'm back. I am going to start with something superficialish because why not. December Lipstick Challenge This month I have been posting a lot of make up pictures. I am wearing it everyday as a challenge to stop me moping around and not taking care of myself. Like seriously in November I didn't brush my hair maybe 2/3 of the days, depression for you everyone. So in December I am opening an advent calendar with a different lip colour everyday and I'm using them. It's been interesting a lot of them so far have been not my usual colours so that's been fun. My favourite thing about it has been some of the conversations I have had about makeup because of it. It's interesting hearing how makeup makes people feel. One person I was talking to sent me a thing about answering questions relating to beauty so I thought I would answer th...

International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia Yesterday was IDAHOBIT, previously IDAHO with Transphobia being added in 2009 and biphobia added in 2015. I have been to several IDAHOBIT events but none touched me so much as yesterday's, the theme for it at was family.  A little background, I am Pan/bisexual and gender neutral if I have to label. I am super lucky though. I regularly get crap from people nowadays mainly for my gender but when I was younger it was for liking girls. Crap at school, college, jobs, in the street, anywhere there were people I didn't know well. I have had lesbians hate me because I don't just date women and straight guys who think I'm tainted because I have dated men who have been with other men. My experience of homophobia, biphobia and transphobia has been sometimes violent but luckily not often, possibly more luckily I punch well and it's definitely impacted my life.  I am still lucky though, I was born into a w...

Cheshire cat time Photo Spiral Moon Photography A little post just to show off the fun I had being the Cheshire cat in Chester. Photo Spiral Moon Photography Photo Credit Spiral Moon Photography

Twenty Things About Me Photography by Ds Photography Model Me Things you should probably know about me if you are looking around here, if you don't approve of the important ones you probably won't have fun here. I am polyamorous, I am living with two wonderful partners and very happy.  I am pansexual.  I am gender neutral. I am someone's mum. He's fab but probably won't be featured much because teenagers deserve some privacy.  I am Pagan, to be more specific a worshipper of Celtic gods, local legends and the energy of the land. I home educate, sometimes its great and sometimes not so much. I love my family, those in my home, extended and the friends I count on that list. I am plus size, I am cool with it and totally in with the body positive stuff. I do workout because I want to bench press a bear, I want to be strong and healthy.  I love music of all different types, especially 90's cheese and Punk. I don't like every piece of m...